Overview
Background
On January 13th, 2018, the women’s interest site Babe[12] published an anonymous account written by a woman identifying herself as the pseudonym “Grace,” who accused Ansari of sexual misconduct in an article titled “I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life.” In the account, the woman describes meeting Ansari at a Los Angeles party and subsequently having dinner with him at a later date in New York. Following dinner, the two returned to Ansari’s apartment, where they engaged in oral sex with one another, though she claimed to have felt uncomfortable and pressured with the experience.
Developments
Online Reaction
That day, the article reached the front page of various subreddits, including /r/WeinsteinEffect,[14]/r/The_Donald[15] and /r/GamerGhazi.[16]
On January 14th, the official @babedotnet Twitter feed tweeted a video of text messages between the woman and Ansari (shown below).
This is the text Grace* sent Aziz Ansari after their date which left her feeling “violated”. She tells Ansari how uncomfortable he made her feel, saying “you ignored clear non-verbal cues” and “kept going with advances.”
— babe (@babedotnet) January 14, 2018
Read the full story on https://t.co/FyMMG6uO1j. pic.twitter.com/lPOvW6tFTr
Aziz Ansari’s Response
Also on January 14th, Ansari released a statement addressing the allegations, in which he claimed all sexual intereactions with the woman were “completely consensual” (shown below).
“In September of last year, I met a woman at a party. We exchanged numbers. We texted back and forth and eventually went on a date. We went out to dinner, and afterwards we ended up engaging in sexual activity, which by all indications was completely consensual.
The next day, I got a text from her saying that although “it may have seemed okay,” upon further reflection, she felt uncomfortable. It was true that everything did seem okay to me, so when I heard that it was not the case for her, I was surprised and concerned. I took her words to heart and responded privately after taking the time to process what she had said.
I continue to support the movement that is happening in our culture. It is necessary and long overdue."
News Media Coverage
Meanwhile, The Atlantic[13] published an article titled “The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari,” in which she referred to the anonymous account as “3,000 words of revenge porn” and lamented how the article “may have destroyed Ansari’s career, which is now the punishment for every kind of male sexual misconduct, from the grotesque to the disappointing.” That day, the article reached the front page of /r/television.[17] On January 16th, Vox[7] published an article titled “The Aziz Ansari story is ordinary. That’s why we have to talk about it,” which argued that Grace’s experience was the result of misogynist cultural values regarding consent.
Search Interest
External References
[1]Babe – I went on a date with Aziz Ansari
[2]The Atlantic – The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari
[3]Reddit – /r/WeinsteinEffect
[4]Reddit – /r/The_Donald
[5]Reddit – /r/GamerGhazi
[6]Reddit – The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari